Am I asking all these questions for nothing?
I’m wondering if anyone’s there, yeah
And I really need to make a confession
I hate to say that I’m a little bit scared, yeah…..Understand by Shawn Mendes
I’ve read many times how a woman’s brain is different from a man’s. 🙂 Women process emotions on the same line as language, which is why it is very easy for a woman to talk about her feelings.
With men, language and emotion are not connected at all. If I ask a man how he feels, he won’t have an answer. Yet if I ask him what he thinks, I’ll definitely get an answer!
We are able to talk at length about our feelings and that’s something men don’t really understand. They’ll say we’re just chit-chatting.
Between men, a problem won’t be considered for very long. Instead they immediately move to solve it. That’s because they have solution-oriented thinking, whereas women talk to build rapport. Men see a problem as something that must be resolved as quickly as possible.
Women often won’t even ask for a solution, but instead desire recognition, empathy, attention and understanding. A listening ear. Men don’t get this. They prefer to go straight to the action….the Alfa-men brain 🙂
But one thing is certain, we do need each other to keep the balance. 🙂
PS “Everything will be okay in the end. If it’s not okay, it’s not the end.” John Lennon